Why Pregnancy is Like Backpacking, So Far

Once upon a time, I used to love backpacking. Packing up my food and shelter and carrying it up a mountain in hopes of reaching a summit above the tree line was exhilirating. Slowly but surely, and a few days later, the mountain would run out of up and I’d be at my destination atop an archive of new memories. But the backpacking experience can also be very humbling. Weather and wildlife, the angry variables, will inevitably have their way with your trip, regardless of your expectations.

Pregnancy resembles backpacking in so many ways; if you’ve experienced one, you can gain some understanding into the level of difficulty involved with the other. For the sake of brevity in this analogy, I’ll skip straight to the moment you find yourself at the trailhead on the mountain, or starting point of your pregnancy.

Trailhead

At the foothills of the mountain, you may notice that the air is thinner. This is kind of like the first trimester of pregnancy. You just need to become acclimated to the new environment. It takes at least a day (for me, at least) to re-train your lungs to deal with the lesser amount of oxygen on the mountain.

Fortunately, by the time you get used to the fatigue and nausea associated with the first trimester of pregnancy, it’s over.

That’s when you hit your stride. It’s easier to take in the wonder of your changing world at this time.

Friendly Butterfly, Colorado The ascent up the mountain is relatively predictable, but there may be a thunder storm here and there, a mob of mosquitoes, or a patch unexpected snow. The second trimester of pregnancy is the same. Aches and pains become normal, there is a child growing inside of you, after all. The weird stuff happening in your body, like baby’s somersaults, and heartburn hasn’t become freaky yet.

Still, you’re taking it all in and dreaming of the spectacular view from the top.

Crystle Camping

Then the third trimester hits. Or, similarly, you reach and pass the tree line on the mountainside. Uh oh, you no longer have the tree canopy to shelter you from thunder storms.

Aspen Canopy

In pregnancy, you realize you’re no longer coasting on borrowed parenthood time and that revelation leaves you feeling vulnerable. It’s time to get real about being a parent and make sure you’ve got the tools necessary to be a good one. No matter what, there remains a degree of apprehension around your parenting capabilities. It’s something that parents probably don’t ever get over… it may even be a stipulation to join their club.

On the mountain, now is a good time to get out your rain gear so you can truck straight through the inevitable downpour. In pregnancy, go ahead and wrap up your nesting phase. In both cases, you’ve got the gear and you tell yourself you’re ready for what’s around the corner.

Incoming Storm

But, guess what? If ever there was a time for things to go awry, it’s now. You could run into a bear on the mountain, or be knocked off a cliff by gusty winds. Lightning could strike you much more easily since you’re on top of a mountain.

Your water could break IN PUBLIC, you could not know you’re in labor and end up delivering in the car, or you could end up delivering an eleven pound baby, vaginally. Or, as in my experience (up to this point), the baby drops and sudden sciatica renders you immobile. I’ve been stuck on the couch all week, unable to cook or clean or have any fun, really. Fortunately my husband is at hand and ready to help in any way necessary. He’s my rain gear, you could say. Without him, I’m not sure hiking straight through the misery* would be tolerable. Anyways, the uncertainty is daunting.

So here I am, at the point of the backpacking trip where I’d rather turn tail down the mountain in hopes of getting to a hotel at a decent hour. At the same point in pregnancy, labor hasn’t even begun, but the fear is taking over. Right now it’s looking like Backpacking is easier than pregnancy, because now I have no choice but to head straight into the storm of labor and delivery, unsure of what’s on the other side. No turning back!

I’ll be sure to let you know when this baby comes, and whether or not there were any bears.

Colorado Rockies

___________________________________________________________________________________

*I refuse to indulge any of you in the freaky things that my body is doing right now, but if you’re a mother, you undoubtedly know the disgusting (and painful) things your body does when you’re edging closer to labor and delivery.

13 Comment

  1. Hang in there, as of course you will! I love the backpacking analogy. You’re blessed to have a raincoat of a husband!!!

    1. Thank you, Naima! And I agree, I’m pretty lucky to have landed such a great husband.

  2. Louise Bass says: Reply

    Very cute analogy Crystle! Yes many similarities. All our best wishes to you and Isaac on the arrival of Margot! Your lives will never be the same. And all for the better. Love, Louise Bass, Christie’s sister.

    1. Thank you for the well wishes and for contributing to the box of baby goodies from our registry, Lousie!

  3. Thinking of you as her birth draws near! I hope the end of the climb is fulfilling. 🙂

  4. Christie Ardoin says: Reply

    Pretty soon you will get to “take off the backpack” and rest (in a different sort of way)

  5. So true!! I would also add the “false summit” — where you think you’re at the top, only to get there and realize you have more climbing to do. When I hit 37 weeks, I was like “woo hoo! done!” but … I’m not. Still more climbing.

    Also, your post script cracks me up =) I am just all sorts of disgusting these days.

    1. Ha! You’re right there with me, Courtney. I think we were both suckered in by the ‘full term’ label on week 37…we’ll probably go past our due date!

  6. yah i can see this! and btw, during my last two weeks i had horrible pain and couldn’t walk either! it was so hard to do even laundry! i thought it was sciatica but it was something else where ligaments in my pelvic bones had stretched funny or something. anyway, it went away about a week after i had the bebe..

    1. This gives me hope that maybe baby will be here in a week or so, and this pain will be gone soon! I’m going to see my midwife today, hopefully she can provide some insight into what’s going on with my hips, yoga and heating pads aren’t helping anymore.

      Having Margot in my arms sure would make it worthwhile right about now.

  7. Kendra says: Reply

    i wish i had something a little more witty to say, but none the less this post was wonderful. i loved reading it and i’m praying for you lady! you got this!

    1. Thanks for the encouragement, Kendra! I really need it.

  8. Awesome analogy lol. Believe me when I say that you most definitely will know when labor begins. 😉
    You are going to be an amazing mommy!

Leave a Reply